Gay Dating: Tips on How to Cruise Safely
Some people are monogamous by nature, and love nothing more than settling down with that special someone. But others never tire of the gay dating scene, specifically cruising. There are many arguments for and against cruising, but if you choose to cruise, it’s important to be safe about it.
1. Always bring protection. And lots of it. This is NUMBER ONE! There is no reason not to have several condoms with you at all times. I know, I sound like some mom from the 1950s telling you not to leave the house unless you’re in clean underwear (although that is sound advice too). You never know what is going to happen. Maybe you’ll meet some cute guy on the subway or strolling through a park. Like the Boy Scouts always say, “Be Prepared.” And it’s best to be very prepared … you never know how many boys you may run into 
2. Be selective, at least a little bit. Okay, so the whole idea of cruising is that it is anonymous, or close to anonymous. But always listen to your gut instinct. If someone seems a bit off to you, or creepy, or there is something that just isn’t quite right about them … move on! There will always be another day. Best to air on the side of caution. God forbid something happens to you and you have the “I knew it” realization a little too late.
3. Don’t get yourself in situations that you can’t get out of. It’s important to keep your wits about you. Of course sex often takes place in private or semi-private places, but you always need to be aware of your surroundings. Don’t let yourself be led into a dangerous spot all in the name of a good time. Likewise, although many sexual positions may leave you vulnerable, you may want to avoid bondage or other activities which will leave you completely helpless.
4. Always use protection. I know, I said this already. But it is extremely important! There is no excuse for not using protection. Sure, if you are in the confines of a committed and trust-filled relationship and you’ve both been tested, yada yada yada, fine. But this is a stranger. Remember Stranger Danger! Do not take his word for it that he has been tested. Anyone can have a Sexually Transmitted Disease, and it only takes one time to get infected. Don’t let yourself become a statistic!
